Consciously I've done everything possible to avoid being a dependent. To the maximum extent possible, I avoid taking help and do most of the things by myself.
But without ever realizing, I've allowed a lot others to be a dependent on me. A handful who felt better having dependency on me, a few I had pet myself and nurtured as my dependents.
When the realization struck me, I began to say no to these dependents. Neither do I nurture them, nor do I encourage those who depend on me.
It's great to be on our own. Similarly, it's great to see whom you care for being on their own. Saying no is a beautiful way to see your beloved ones grow. Say no & watch them grow.
When all else is lost, the one within survives. One must be ready and take practice to be thyself. When there's no other way out, take help.
Say no, kill dependency!
Love,
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